Playing Second Fiddle
 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
-Romans 12:10

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves."
— Philippians 2:3 (NIV)

Lent is a season of surrender—a time to reflect on the life of Jesus and intentionally lay down our pride, preferences, and positions. In a world that applauds self-promotion and success, Lent invites us to embrace something countercultural: humility.

The phrase "playing second fiddle" comes from the world of orchestras, where the first violin gets the spotlight. Yet without the second violin, the music lacks harmony and depth. Playing second fiddle doesn’t mean you’re unimportant—it means you're essential, even if you're not center stage. I used to think that being a leader meant being front and center, but over time, I have realized that true leadership means stepping back, encouraging others to lean into their strengths and celebrating when they shine!

Jesus Himself chose to play “second fiddle” in many ways. Though fully God, He took the role of a servant, washing feet, embracing the outcast, and submitting to the will of the Father—even unto death. He never grasped for status. Instead, He humbled Himself (Philippians 2:6–8). His entire ministry was marked by putting others first.

In Lent, we’re invited to imitate that humility. Maybe it means letting someone else shine at work, listening more than we speak, or choosing the less glamorous role in our communities. It may feel like dying to self—because it is. But in this dying, something beautiful is born: the life of Christ in us.

To put others before ourselves is not to erase our value—it’s to reflect the heart of Jesus. It’s to create harmony in the body of Christ. It’s to allow someone else’s melody to rise, knowing that our supportive notes matter just as deeply.

This Lent, let us practice the sacred art of second fiddle. Let us surrender the need to be noticed and choose instead to notice others. Let us make room for others to flourish, trusting that in God’s kingdom, the lowly are lifted, and the humble are exalted.

Reflection Question:
Where in your life is God calling you to step back so someone else can step forward?

Prayer:
Jesus, You showed us the way of humility. You never demanded the spotlight, but instead gave Your life for us. Teach me to serve, to listen, and to value others above myself. May I find joy in playing second fiddle, knowing that I’m following You. Amen.